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The thing is, if you did tell anyone, particularly a therapist you might shatter their ego and perhaps they are not as ready as you are to be let in on this little secret.

I do a lot of work one to one with people, and after a session Bo Jackson Raiders Jersey , or some times later, they will say to me, "I can't believe you made me do ..." or "I can't believe you made me change ..."

And this is in spite of me telling them before a session, "I can't make you do anything you don't want to do, you are the one that does all the work here."

In fact Marshawn Lynch Raiders Jersey , it's not just in therapy session, but it's in life you hear people say, "You made me ..."

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See, as a therapist, I don't actually make you do anything. I can't make you do anything you don't want to do. If I could then I'd be retired by now as the most famous therapist on the planet!

I just act as a guide; a facilitator if you like, helping to get you to your chosen destination.

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Does the map book get you there?

No. It does not.

You use the map book and it guides you there. It tells you the route to take, but you actually get yourself there.

You could ditch the map and just go by gut instinct, but it'll probably take you much longer to get there, if you got there at all. And who knows where you would end up on route!

This is how it works with therapy sessions.

The therapist is the map Amari Cooper Limited Jersey , and you are the driver.

As a therapist, I use my skills, my knowledge and my experience to guide you safely through the quagmire to your chosen destination. You could make the journey yourself, and some people do, but it can take longer and be a much more treacherous route.

Of course Howie Long Limited Jersey , this doesn't just apply to therapists though; it can apply to any area of your life. You can use the knowledge and experience of experts to get you to your goal quicker.

If you take up a new hobby or sport, you don't tend to sit in a corner and try to work it all out yourself. You will normally go for lessons or at the very least get a book by an expert. When you start a new job, you are generally taught by an "expert"; someone who already knows the ropes.

In effect, you model the expert, learn how they do it and then do the same. Kids do it all the time. It's how they learn. Ever noticed how your kids always pick up those annoying habits from you; the ones you really didn't want them to have?

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If you are learning to break a wooden plank with your bare hands, it's no good thinking about your shopping list whilst going through the motions. You have to copy the mental processes and then you will shatter the wood.

Whatever your goals in life, use a "map book" to help you get there. Model an expert and your journey will be much easier and safer.

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Moses, who added the African Muay Thai title to his name during the Xtra Kombat Africa fight series held in Nairobi, said Tuesday the anticipated bout scheduled for January 2017 will probably be his most difficult fight ever.


"I know it will be tough for me since the officials from Thailand have only sent me an intimidating photo of my expected opponent whose name I don't even know, and since I cannot even research on him from the internet, I will go to Thailand for intensive training in two weeks' time ahead of the fight," he told Xinhua in Nairobi.


Moses overcame a spirited challenge from Tanzania's Emmanuel Shija to win in the five-round bout that was the key highlight of the inaugural Xtra Kombat Africa fight series.


During the bout, Shija brought Moses down before the Ugandan sprung to his feet to find Shija unprepared for a double punch on target in the third round to the applause of the Ugandan and Kenyan fans that had waited all afternoon to cheer him on.


The Ugandan disclosed his plans of establishing a martial arts academy in Uganda that will be used to groom talent in the region, adding that Kenya will be a major beneficiary of the academy.


"The academy is already under construction, the coaches will be hosted in Kenya because the Thai Embassy is located in Nairobi and therefore the only gateway," Moses said.


He said the Golola Talent Academy which sits on a one acre piece of land at Kawempe along Bombo road in eastern Uganda will be the first-ever kickboxing academy in the region and will not only help in developing the sport but also enhance diplomatic ties between Kenya, Uganda and Thailand.

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